If you pay a nanny, au pair or home caregiver, household payroll follows a predictable rhythm. You set things up before the first day. You pay, withhold and record every pay period. You check your tax payments each quarter. Then you file at year-end: Form W-2 by February 1, 2027 and Schedule H with your federal return by April 15, 2027, for wages paid in 2026. This guide puts every step in order so nothing catches you off guard.
TL;DR
- Before day one: complete Form I-9, get an employer identification number (EIN) and agree on pay rate, schedule and pay day in writing.
- Every pay period: record hours, pay for every hour worked, withhold the employee's share of Social Security and Medicare once wages reach the 2026 threshold of $3,000, and save a pay record.
- Every quarter: check that your tax payments are on track, either through your own withholding or estimated payments.
- Year-end: give your employee a Form W-2, file W-2 and W-3 with the Social Security Administration by February 1, 2027, and file Schedule H by April 15, 2027.
- Always: keep records for at least four years.
Table of Contents
- 1. Before the first day of work
- 2. Choose a pay frequency
- 3. What to do every pay period
- 4. Quarterly check-ins
- 5. Year-end timeline for wages paid in 2026
- 6. Keep your records
- Our perspective
- Need help with your timeline?
- Common timing mistakes to avoid
- A simple annual calendar
- FAQ
- Sources
1. Before the first day of work
Most payroll problems begin because nothing was set up before the nanny started. Do these steps first.
Confirm the worker is your employee
The IRS looks at how much control you have over the work, and that test applies whether the person works full-time, part-time or was found through an agency, according to its guidance on hiring household employees. If you decide when, where and how the care is given, you are almost certainly a household employer. Our guide on classifying household employees goes deeper on this.
Complete Form I-9
For a regular household employee, the IRS explains in Publication 926 that Form I-9 is required and that the employee must complete their section no later than the first day of work. You then complete yours after reviewing the identity and work authorization documents.
Get an EIN and check state rules
Publication 926 for 2026 also tells employers to get an employer identification number, and to find out whether federal and state employment taxes apply. State rules vary on unemployment insurance, workers' compensation, minimum wage and overtime, so look up your own state's labor department before you finalize pay.
Put the agreement in writing
Write down:
- The hourly rate.
- The regular weekly schedule.
- The pay day and pay frequency.
- How overtime, paid time off, holidays and reimbursements work.
- How hours will be recorded.
A clear agreement protects both sides. It also makes the rest of the timeline easier, because every later step depends on these decisions.
2. Choose a pay frequency

Federal wage law does not set how often you must pay a household employee, but states do. The U.S. Department of Labor keeps a page of state payday requirements, and many states require payment at least semi-monthly or monthly. Check yours before you commit to a schedule.
Beyond the legal minimum, think about how overtime works. Overtime is figured by the workweek, a fixed seven-day period, and hours cannot be averaged across a longer cycle. That is why many families pay weekly or every two weeks: each paycheck lines up cleanly with complete workweeks.
| Pay frequency | Paychecks per year | Best for |
|---|---|---|
| Weekly | 52 | Variable hours, regular overtime, easiest hour matching |
| Every two weeks | 26 | Steady schedules, familiar rhythm for many employees |
| Twice a month | 24 | Families who prefer fixed calendar dates, needs careful overtime handling |
| Monthly | 12 | Only where state law allows, and rarely a good fit for hourly work |
Whatever you pick, put it in the work agreement and stick to it. Our articles on nanny pay frequency and nanny pay periods cover state differences and how pay periods interact with the $3,000 threshold.
3. What to do every pay period
The core cycle is the same each time you pay your employee. Publication 926 sums it up: withhold the applicable Social Security and Medicare taxes, decide how you will make your tax payments, and keep records.
Step 1: Record the hours
A non-exempt household employee should be paid by the hour. Hourly pay gives you accurate records and makes overtime requirements easy to follow. Collect actual hours worked for the pay period, including early arrivals, late pickups and any approved overtime. A shared time log that both of you can see removes most disputes. Our nanny time tracking tool is built for exactly this.
Step 2: Calculate gross pay
Multiply regular hours by the hourly rate. Add overtime at the rate your state and federal rules require. Add approved reimbursements separately, such as mileage or groceries, since they are not wages.
Step 3: Withhold taxes
According to Publication 926, you must withhold and pay Social Security and Medicare taxes on cash wages of $3,000 or more in 2026. You may also choose to pay the employee's share yourself instead of withholding it. Federal income tax withholding is optional, and applies only if your employee asks and you agree, usually through a Form W-4. Some states have their own income tax withholding and unemployment insurance requirements.
Step 4: Pay and save the record
Give your employee a pay statement that shows hours, rate, gross pay, deductions and net pay. Keep a copy.
A worked example
Say your nanny earns $600 for the week. At a combined Social Security and Medicare rate of 7.65% for the employee's share, withholding is $45.90, so net pay before any other deductions is $554.10. As the employer you owe a matching $45.90. You can set that amount aside each week so it is ready at tax time. The rates are described in Publication 926.
A wage of $600 a week means $31,200 over a year, far above the threshold, so withholding applies from the start of the year. The details of the threshold are in our guide to nanny W-2 rules.

4. Quarterly check-ins
Household employers generally do not file a separate payroll return each quarter the way a business does. Instead, the IRS says you generally add your household employment taxes to the taxes on your own federal income tax return. The quarterly part is making sure you pay enough along the way.
Two common ways to stay on track:
- Raise your own withholding. If you or your spouse have a job, you can increase withholding with a new Form W-4 at your workplace so it covers the household taxes.
- Make estimated tax payments. These are due on a quarterly schedule, and Publication 926 explains how household employment taxes can be included in them. Use the current year's IRS payment dates.
Also watch federal unemployment tax (FUTA). The household employer rules in Publication 926 apply it when you pay $1,000 or more in cash wages in any calendar quarter. Many states add their own unemployment insurance, with their own payment schedules, so confirm with your state agency.
A quarterly habit that helps: on the first week after each quarter ends, total your wages paid, the taxes withheld and the amounts you set aside. If you use a payroll service or an accountant, ask them to send the same summary.
5. Year-end timeline for wages paid in 2026
Year-end is where most families feel pressure. These are the dates for the 2026 tax year, as published in Publication 926.
| When | What to do |
|---|---|
| Late December 2026 | Make the last pay run of the year, reconcile hours and reimbursements |
| January 2027 | Collect final totals, confirm each wage figure and withholding amount |
| By February 1, 2027 | Give your employee Form W-2, and file Forms W-2 and W-3 with the Social Security Administration |
| By April 15, 2027 | File Schedule H with your 2026 federal return, or alone if you do not need to file a return |
The IRS guidance on Publication 926 states each of these dates. If you pay state unemployment insurance or state income tax, check your state's separate year-end deadlines, which can fall earlier or later.
Schedule H or business forms
Most families use Schedule H, which is Schedule H (Form 1040). If you also have employees in a business, the IRS notes that you may report household taxes with your business taxes on Form 941, 944 or 943 instead. See the IRS page on Forms 940, 941, 944 and Schedule H if that applies to you.
Year-end checklist
- Confirm your employee's legal name and Social Security number match the Form W-2.
- Total gross wages, Social Security wages, Medicare wages and taxes withheld.
- Review overtime reporting. Our guide on Box 12 overtime explains what to look for.
- Deliver the W-2 well before the deadline, and keep proof you did.
- Gather everything for Schedule H or your accountant.
The nanny share situation adds a twist, because each family is usually a separate employer for its own share of the pay. See nanny share taxes for how that plays out.
6. Keep your records
Publication 926 says employers should keep records of wages paid, taxes withheld and forms such as W-2, W-3, W-4 and Schedule H for at least four years after the tax return due date or the date the taxes were paid, whichever is later. In practice, keep:
- Signed work agreement
- Form I-9 and a copy of the documents you reviewed, as required
- Hours worked for every pay period
- Pay statements and proof of payment
- Records of tax withholding and payments
- Copies of every filed form
Our article on household employer records explains why four years is not the whole rule, since some state and legal situations call for longer retention.
Our perspective
Most families we talk to are not trying to cut corners. They just never had a clear picture of what happens when. The timeline is not complicated, but it is unforgiving if you start late, because every missed pay period of records has to be rebuilt from memory.
We believe the foundation of household payroll is accurate hours. Everything else, from overtime to the W-2, is arithmetic on top of those numbers. That is why our app is designed to give caregivers a simple way to log hours, send schedule requests and see their jobs in one calendar, and it is free for caregivers. Families get a transparent record they can trust, and caregivers get proof of the time they worked.
For household employers who need help with tax, payroll or compliance questions, we also offer one-time payroll consultations. Our goal is peace of mind: you know what is due, when it is due, and what to keep.
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Common timing mistakes to avoid
Starting payroll after the first paychecks
It is tempting to pay informally at first and sort out the paperwork later. The problem is that Form I-9 is due on the employee's first day of work, and every unrecorded pay period leaves a gap in your records. Starting correctly is far easier than repairing the gap.
Setting a flat weekly salary without tracking hours
Flat pay is common, but an hourly worker who is non-exempt still needs hours tracked so overtime can be shown. Without hours, you cannot prove the pay was right. A flat weekly figure can work as long as it is tied to a documented schedule and hours are recorded.
Ignoring the state side
Federal deadlines get most of the attention, but states can require unemployment insurance, income tax withholding, workers' compensation and minimum wage compliance. Check your state labor agency early. Our guide on nanny minimum wage is a good place to start with pay rates.
Missing the threshold
Because of the $3,000 threshold for 2026, families who pay a few hundred dollars a month can cross it without noticing. Track cumulative wages each pay period so you know when withholding begins.
Waiting until January to pull numbers together
If you wait until the W-2 deadline, you may find missing hours or unclear reimbursements. A short monthly review, even ten minutes, keeps year-end smooth.
A simple annual calendar
Here is the full year in one view. Adjust for your pay frequency and state.
- Before hire: confirm employee status, collect I-9 documents, get EIN, sign the work agreement.
- First pay day: pay by the hour, save the pay statement, begin tracking cumulative wages.
- Each pay period: record hours, calculate pay, withhold where required, set aside the employer share.
- Each quarter: review totals and confirm your tax payments are on track.
- December: run the final payroll and reconcile.
- January to February 1: prepare and deliver W-2s, and file W-2 and W-3.
- By April 15: file Schedule H with your return.
- Always: keep your records.
A good rule: if something changes, such as a raise, new hours or an additional caregiver, update your written agreement the same week and keep a copy.
FAQ
What is a standard payroll schedule for a household employee?
There is no single federal standard, so your state's payday rules decide the minimum. Many families pay weekly or every two weeks, because overtime is figured by the workweek and those schedules match it. Choose one, write it into the work agreement and keep it consistent.
What are the basic steps in processing household payroll?
Record hours, calculate gross pay, withhold Social Security and Medicare taxes when required, pay your employee and save a pay record. Then set aside your employer share and decide how you will make tax payments. Publication 926 outlines the same core steps.
When are household employer tax forms due?
For wages paid in 2026, give your employee a Form W-2 and file Forms W-2 and W-3 with the Social Security Administration by February 1, 2027. File Schedule H with your federal return by April 15, 2027. Check your state for its own dates.
How long should I keep household payroll records?
At least four years after the tax return due date or the date the taxes were paid. Keep hours, pay statements, tax forms and your work agreement together so you can find them quickly.
Sources
- Publication 926 (2026), Household Employer's Tax Guide, IRS
- Hiring household employees, IRS
- Forms 940, 941, 944 and 1040 (Sch H) employment taxes, IRS
- State Payday Requirements, U.S. Department of Labor
